Life hasn’t been going well lately. You know it’s time for a change. You know that of all the changes you could make, one stands out above the rest.
You know what you’re supposed to do, right?
And there’s the problem.
The problem is that you already know what to do to maximize your happiness, increase your joy, and live in the power of purpose, and knowing and doing are two entirely different things. After all, there are goals to set, plans to make, and alternatives to consider, and all of it is quite overwhelming.
Or is it?
I’ve got two vitally important things for you to consider.
First, knowing isn’t everything. In fact, it’s NOTHING.
The biggest problem we have is telling ourselves that grand old lie, “I know.” When someone – a friend, coach, adviser, or trusted confidant – tells us what we would do well to do, we respond with, “I know.”
And we’re telling the truth. We really do know. Well…we think we know.
The truth is that knowing is not about what’s going on in your brain. It’s not even about what’s going on in your thoughts.
You see, knowing means that you are doing, pure and simple. If you are living the way you want to be living, then you know that way of life. If you’re not living it, then you don’t know it.
So if you know what you’re supposed to do, why aren’t you doing it? What’s getting in the way?
That gets to the second point. The biggest obstacle to knowing is your own mind.
Your mind is a treasure trove of thoughts, experiences, judgments and ideas. Everything you have ever experienced, everything you have ever done, and everything you have ever accepted as true, are all stored in your mind. Some of these are wonderful and helpful, while others are less than desirable for your life.
And some of them are flat out wrong.
When was the last time you actually sorted out your thoughts, to see which ones are helping you, which ones are getting in the way, and which ones are total lies? It’s definitely something to consider!
Here’s a quick and enlightening exercise to try:
Find a quiet place, and simply sit for ten minutes – that’s all! – and watch your thoughts. No phone, no computer, no interruptions. Just you and your thoughts. Notice what you are thinking. Notice where they came from…or who they came from. Then notice whether they are helpful are not
Then realize that you can actually choose to get rid of the thoughts you don’t want. You can actually delete thoughts that no longer serve you, and replace them with thoughts that actually help you become who you truly are (not who people have told you who you are).
Yes, it’s a complicated road. It does seem overwhelming. But it isn’t.
No, you can’t do it alone. This is your LIFE, not a do-it-yourself project.
We humans live in communities for a reason: no one can get through this life alone. We exist to help each other let go of what binds us, and live the best life possible, using our unique abilities and gifts.
Ask Jennifer, Denny, Kari, or even me for help, so that you can get rid of those total lies in your mind, get empowered, and start proving that you know the right direction in your life by actually living it. Follow this link to start the conversation.