I should I should I should
If you had to count, how many times a day do you think you burden yourself with this phrase?
I should can carry some heavy consequences with its energy when you misuse it. When you use it as reason to do something even when you don’t want to, don’t need to and it doesn’t fulfill you or those you care about in any way. But people expect it, so you do it. Because you should.
The ruler of should metaphor applies here: the ruler you carry around, never measuring up to, of all the things you should be doing, thinking, or feeling.
And every time you look at the ruler to see how you are measuring up – the ruler gets a little taller, or you get a little smaller and you never quite make it to the mark that others have drawn for you.
There is always a more out there. Though, intuitively you know that more isn’t anywhere on that ruler…you keep looking.
And you feel like you never measure up.
What if you were free of the ruler and free to focus on all the fucks you WANT to be giving about the things you want, need and which provide a sense of fulfillment?
Should (used in the way of measuring) dictates to you. When you are free to focus, you GAF where you want to GAF – no longer subjugated to anyone else’s should.
THIS IS WHY I DEVELOPED MY 5 DAY CHALLENGE KICKING OFF 23 OCTOBER: FREE TO FOCUS (ON THE F#$KS YOU WANT TO GIVE)
- To free you from should
- To release you from the doing, thinking and feeling you should be doing to the doing, thinking and feeling you ne dot be doing to create an awesome life
- To indulge that craving for more you feel but haven’t been able to answer because you are so distracted by should
BE FREE, FREE TO FOCUS, ON THE THINGS YOU TRULY CARE ABOUT.
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